Date-rape is the most common form of rape with a 78% rating of youth under the age of 25; 3 out of 5 rape cases involves young girls under 18. Not only is there physical pain and hurt, but victims are less likely to start and maintain healthy future relationships.
How does it happen: In most cases…instantly! You can turn your back to talk to a friend, which is enough time for someone to slip a drug into your beverage. Most attackers don’t spend time with the victim; they simply monitor your drinking habits before making their move.
What happens during date-rape: Every case has the same effects: dizziness, extreme fatigue and weightlessness. Many victims also experience watching occurrences without emotion or concern, blackouts and moments of lucidity followed by blank spots. At this time, the body has lost control, and the attacker can make his/her move.
What can be done to avoid date-rape: Simple steps can be followed: NEVER leave your drink unattended, ONLY accept closed-container drinks, and if you are at a bar, remember to ALWAYS get your drink directly from the bartender and no one else, even other you may feel you trust. You can also use the Drink Safe Technology, which are portable strips that change color when they come into contact with date-rape drugs (to find out more info, click here.)
What to watch for/What to do if you have been violated: If someone seems extremely intoxicated after one beverage, they may have been drugged. Also, a sudden “friend” who comes by to “help” an intoxicated individual may not be a friend after all. If you feel you have been a victim of date-rape, seek professional help FIRST!
Always remember: DATE-RAPE IS NOT A “GIRL” THING; IT CAN HAPPEN TO MEN, TOO!
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