This is a question that I often have to ponder. I guess you all can just about imagine some of the questions that I get on this free online advice blog.  Some of the questions can be as long as two pages.  That is actually a full psychotherapy session. Many of you think that men ONLY just recklessly have sex, but I wonder if there are women who do just the same and are willing to admit it?    After all, if a woman is at a medical symposium or church conference and sees something that she really likes,(male eye candy) what does she do? Leave it on the shelf, I think not!

Now the video I want to share in this post is, “Women How Do You Know If You Are a Booty Call?” Take a Peek!
http://youtu.be/lVnI0Lzefag

What was very interesting is I could not find a male response to this what could be considered very damaging”male ego” video.  This video really paints us in a very negative manner. However, there are some women who do exactly what this lady states that men do.  If you disagree, hit me up in the post.

Men How to Recognize if You Are Just a Booty Call.

1. She only calls you when her husband is out of town.
2. You have to leave her house after sex.
3. She only phones on the weekends.
4. She doesn’t know your first name.
5. She does not allow you to EVER shower at her place after sex.
6. You attend the same pentecostal church.
7. She allegedly is a virgin.
8. She refuses foreplay.
9. Marriage is NEVER discussed.
10. She has NEVER introduced you to ANY of her family or friends.

Now that I have got that controversial list out there, let me share with you my clinical perspectives on this topic. Yes some women can have sex with no attachment! (This Is My Opinion) They do it all the time in the American culture. (with condoms) Many of my friends share stories about the occasional midnight hook-up or the fantasy Fridays.  They felt abused and let down after being asked to leave in the middle of the night. LOL Usually they got the call when the females husband or boyfriend was away or unavailable. I did a brief confidential survey of 58 men between the ages of 35-55. There were only three questions and the results are very interesting.

Questions

• Have you ever slept with a married women?
• Did she initiate the rendezvous?
• Did you receive a gift or compensation?

Here is a summary of the responses;

54% of the men surveyed had slept RECENTLY with a married woman.

Of that 75% stated that the women in initiated the hook-up.

Of that 33% of the men actually received some form of voluntary compensation.(money, watch, etc.)

I am sure that many of you will have something to say about this post. Don’t be a punk ladies let me hear your true feelings. And men, if you have felt neglected, misused or disliked if you were just a booty call-feel free to comment on this blog-post.

Also if you are confused about the direction of your current relationship, pick up my e-book, “Am I in a Bad Relationship?” This is a hot seller.

Once again thanks for stopping by,

Dr.O