Dear Dr.O,

My spouse is physically abusive. After a night of cussing and fussing he wants to be intimate, which includes sex. I am afraid to say no. What should I do?

Mrs. Y
Texas

Dear Mrs. Y.,

First you have to seek out help and gradually remove yourself from this type of situation. I applaud you for your transparency because I am sure there are many others in the same or similar position. Plan your exit. Don’t move to quickly as he may become more intense and or aggressive. The bottom line is that you must remove yourself for safety as well as peace.

Dr.O

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